Cautiously, complexes!
My girlfriend has complained to me, that her daughter was in a hysterics during gathering in a kindergarten, yesterday. Her daughtr has flatly refused to put on the clothes prepared for her. Mum has been very surprised, because gently pink T-short with amusing drawing of a horsy was favourite clothes of her daughter.
In very early age I had a charming pink flannel dress with white hearts. ButВ to put on this dress I has dared no more than two times. The matter is that I ws hesitated of drawing: hearts seemed for me something indecent. Notice, in my family there was the absolute harmony, any negative and rigid rules. But, for example, in the school I bashfully covered with a hand a pocket-heart on a skirt.В Parents knew nothing, and could not understand, why I do not carry this or that dresses.
Probably, you will think, that I had problems with mentality …. I assure you, that all was in a full order. I hesitated of public opinion and was afraid of sneers . Probably, any case has compelled me to be afraid of opinion of contemporaries. And here in the childhood it nearly has not led to development of complexes ….
Unfortunately, our children not always explain the reasons of their, as we consider, whims. For us their small troubles seem nonsense in comparison with global problems of our restless century. But to children political wars and world accidents are absolutely indifferent. And silly jokes of the disobedient boy can become the greatest misfortune for the child. Therefore it is necessary to show consideration especially for predilections of your children and to choose such clothes which she/he could brought only with pleasure and a self-trust. It is not necessary to forget both age features, and character traits. Then children will learn joyfully and freely surrounding the world, to mature and realise themselves.
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